Sunday 8 January 2017

Notorious feminists

I am a woman and I can breathe, think, feel, get harmed. I can study, work, get some rest, enjoy. I can hurt, shout, fight. A part of physical differences, what is it that makes me worth less than a man? 

Some people thinks I am a feminist in the strange meaning of this word: a woman who hates men, wants to be served by men, doesn’t want to cook, clean or shop. When I say I am a feminist, they look at me as if I were from the other planet. In those moments I feel quite confused. Because everybody who can think should be aware of the fact that feminists don’t have to hate men or refuse to cook. 

Let me explain: I like men (or some of them). And I like women (or some of them). Equally. Both men and women are able to work, to carry out family duties, to take care of children, to cook, to THINK, to BE FAIR. Of course: men cannot give birth to children and women can’t possibly carry  very heavy staff. But a part of those small (actually) aspects, we are all the same. 

So what can I think of all the men or women who think differently? Who limit other’s rights and bereave a chance for fulfilling one’s dreams? I can only suppose they don’t understand and that their minds cannot comprehend this problem. 

Sorry. And in the end I can only echo what Alicia Keys said one day:

"[I am a feminist because it's about] 'the advocacy of women's rights on the ground of political, social and economic equality'. "Whoever isn't [a feminist] is crazy."

Tuesday 3 January 2017

New year's letter

New year has come.

Do you have any resolutions? I do have some, but I’m not going to tell you what I have decided to do. Otherwise it will not fulfil. 

I want to tell you about something else, something I like to do on the first day of the new year: about writing a letter. You can choose the topic. I usually write things I would like to do in a new year and I write something that I would like to remind to myself-in-a-year. Then you close the envelope and hide it. And wait all year long. After 365 days you open it and check what has happened. It’s really nice to read the letter on the last day of an old year and to sum up everything you have done. 
 
This year I did it too and my letter waits for me in my special box. This year I decided to choose resolutions that I will be able to check. Because resolutions like ‘eat healthier’ or ‘do more exercises’ are quite difficult to validate. 

And you? Any resolutions? Or maybe, even, a revolution? ;)